The Permission You Didn’t Know You Were Giving
Hey friend!
Can I ask you something?
When you walk into a room and pretend you have it all together, what do you think the people around you do?
They pretend too.
Here’s what I want you to think about…
Your realness gives other people permission to be real.
Not surprising, right?
It comes with being human.
We take our cues from each other.
When you show up honest, something in the room shifts.
The masks come down.
The walls get a little lower.
That’s leadership. Even if you never have a title.
The most influential people I know aren’t the loudest ones.
They’re the ones brave enough to go first.
Even if they fail.
When you get real, you don’t just free yourself.
You free the whole room.
That’s actually the whole point.
Being real.
Enjoy the journey!
Brenda
Why not forward this to someone in your life who needs to know their realness is a gift?
Not a liability.
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Brenda is a believer in impossible possibilities. In brokenness becoming beautiful. In justice and mercy and honor and power – with love perfecting them all. She is a wife, mom, mimi, daughter, and friend who also enjoys speaking, writing, and coaching.
