No blame. No shame. Just an honest account of the personal effects abortion had on this woman. A story of healing, forgiveness and actionable love.

Love Chooses Sacrifice Over Comfort – Cindy’s Story

Welcome to the 2ND video in the Wise Women with Whys series.

Grab a cup of coffee (or tea), sit back, and enjoy the honor of being invited into CINDY’S STORY, where this message has been branded into my heart:

To truly love is to choose sacrifice over comfort.

This applies to so many areas of life. But for today, we are privileged to see how that looks for my friend, Cindy.

Many people say they are pro-life. But Cindy has lived through the pain of not thinking she had choices, making one she regretted but couldn’t change, and coming through on the other side of her decision determined to do whatever she can to make sure women have what they need physically, spiritually, and emotionally before making a decision that will change their lives forever. Either way. Cindy empathizes with both struggling pregnant women and their babies. She lives a beautiful life of loving sacrifice, reaching deep into the messes of people’s hearts and lives, and helping with every resource she has to transform those messes into miracles that impact generations forever. I invite you to meet Cindy here in this video as she courageously shares the most vulnerable places in her life story. We are honored. Thank you, Cindy. I invite you to meet her, too, here in this video: Love Chooses Sacrifice Over Comfort: Cindy’s Story | Wise Women With Whys – Episode 2.  Or, click the image below.

Cindy's story - Love chooses sacrifice over comfort

Wise Women With Whys. To know these women. To hear their stories. Their whys. The purpose behind what drives them. It is a privilege I do not take for granted. I pray you treasure the honor of being welcomed into some of the most intimate details of their lives… those that have shaped them and continue to do so.

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Brenda is a believer in impossible possibilities. In brokenness becoming beautiful. In justice and mercy and honor and power – with love perfecting them all. She is a wife, mom, mimi, daughter, and friend who also enjoys speaking, writing, and coaching.